My opinions - - -> First of all your wife does not need a 40. A 9mm will have enough power to quickly dispatch any BG. There are different levels of power (terminal ballistics) available in 9mm ammo. Tons of different bullets at different vels.
There are some quite small 9mm's. Take a look at the Glock 43 or 26. Make sure that the weapon she chooses is big enough for her to get a proper grip on it. With size of weapon and power produced by weapon there is a "law of deminishing returns".
You can carry a 22LR or a 500S&W mag . . . what is right for you probably falls somewhere in between.
Ammo cost will be somewhat less with the 9mm also. Use the lower powered stuff at first. Gradually work up to her carry ammo,but even her carry ammo really does not have to be the kick ass,+P stuff.
Good luck with your search. Let us know what she decides on,and why. --- SAWMAN
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I am fading out 40 and going solely 9mm. But that is just me. Wife hated her lc9 and got a q walther pps. My new pistol is a 19x and my next pistol will be a h&k vp9-b.
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As the ballistics of 9mm can easily make that of 40 and i can carry more rounds in a same/smaller frame. Plus the wife finds 40 to be too much to handle so she only carries 9. Plus easier to buy and stock only 9mm reloading stuff.
I wont sell my 40s or reloading supplies. Just wont be buying more of it.
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357 magnum revolver should be a consideration. Load it up with 38 specials for most practice and the 357s for some practice and carry.
"Do I reload to shoot more, or do I shoot to reload more?" 30-378 Weatherby, .300 RUM, 7mm Rem Mag, 6.5 Creedmoor, .223/5.56, .375 H&H, .40 S&W, 10mm, .357 SIG
I jumped on one of these. They have 90 day Layaway too.
https://shop.whittakerguns.com/product/47774
I guess I have a LCR in .38 Special which I also got from Whittakers a while back for $300. I really like it. It is actually very accurate too. Your wife could have it in a purse or a pocket and pull the trigger. Since it has a covered hammer it would not catch on anything and would go bang. Nice feature IMO.